Wednesday, February 4, 2009

The story of my life

No, not mine...Helen Keller's...

I've been reading a book for an upcoming Multnomah County Library book discussion group, so I had to put down this one for a few weeks.

I'm now coming back to it (well, after I finish Tales of Beedle the Bard) and wanted to share a couple of quotes that I found interesting, from a homeschooling perspective.

In case you care, I'm quoting from The Restored Edition, ISBN 0679642870.
In order to understand how Helen Keller was able to articulate this insight at the age of eleven, how language became her mind's wings, we must look at Anne Sullivan's methods as a teacher, reminding ourselves that The Story of My Life is above all the story of a unique education. John Macy commented that Sullivan's method was both a "natural method" and "a deconstruction of method." By this he meant that Sullivan did not teach Keller language in a series of structured lessons, but rather she created for her--and immersed her in--a total environment of language. (xix)
I like this because it's kind of how we homeschool...total immersion in life.
It was my teacher's genius, her quick sympathy, her loving tact which made the first years of my education so beautiful. It was because she seized the right moment to impart knowledge that made it so pleasant and acceptable to me. She realized that a child's mind is like a shallow brook which ripples and dances merrily over the stony course of its education and reflects here a flower, there a bush, yonder a fleecy cloud; and should be fed by mountain streams and hidden springs, until it broadened out into a deep river, capable of reflecting in its placid surface, billowy hills, the luminous shadows of trees and the blue heavens, as well as the sweet face of a little flower.

Any teacher can take a child to the classroom, but not every teacher can make him learn. He will not work joyously unless he feels that liberty is his, whether he is busy or at rest; he must feel the flush of victory and the heart-sinking of disappointment before he takes with a will the tasks distasteful to him and resolves to dance his way bravely through a dull routine of textbooks. (33)
I like the ideas expressed here...that children can be exposed to a lot of things, and while we might not witness their learning right away, they're soaking it all in. I also like the idea that children need to feel empowered to learn on their own...that no one can make anyone learn anything. However, if we can provide the right materials/opportunities/things they need at the time they need them, our children can't help but learn.
But I soon discovered that college was not quite the romantic lyceum I had imagined. Many of the dreams that had delighted my young inexperience became beautifully less and "faced into the light of common day." Gradually I began to find that there were disadvantages in going to college.

The one I felt and still feel most is lack of time. I used to have time to think, to reflect, my mind and I. We would sit together of an evening and listen to the inner melodies of the spirit, where one hears only in leisure moments when the words of some loved poet touch a deep sweet chord to in the soul that until then has been silent. But in college there is no time to commune with one's thoughts. One goes to college, it seems, not to think. When one enters the portals of learning, one leaves the dearest pleasures--solitude, books and imagination--outside with the whispering pines. I suppose I ought to find some comfort in the thought that I am laying up treasures for future enjoyment, but I am improvident enough to prefer present joy to hoarding riches against a rainy day. (79)
I didn't necessarily feel this way at college, maybe because Cornell College uses the block plan, where you take one class at a time for 3.5 weeks then move on to another class, but I feel grateful that my kids have the luxury of time...with their thoughts, and to pursue their interests.
While my days at Radcliffe were still in the future, they were encircled with a halo of romance, which they have lost; but in the transition from romantic to actual I have learned many things I should never have known had I not tried the experiment. One of them is the precious science of patience, which teaches that we should take our education as we would take a walk in the country, leisurely, our minds hospitably open to impressions of every sort. Such knowledge floods the soul unseen with a soundless tidal wave of deepening thought. "Knowledge is power." Rather, knowledge is happiness because to have knowledge--broad, deep knowledge--is to know true ends from false, and lofty things from low. To know the thoughts and deeds that have marked man's progress is to feel the great heart-throbs of humanity through the centuries; and if one does not feel in these pulsations a heavenward striving, one must indeed be deaf to the harmonies of life. (83)
Knowledge is happiness. Yes!

I'm looking forward to getting back to this inspirational story.

5 comments:

Guildy Pleasures Podcast said...

Carolyn, your most recent blog entry speaks to immersion philosophy and certain learning auras and I loved it. You are an inspired learner, willing to try anything, willing to trust the very concept of learning. I am speaking out of context and can't remember the words, but the book you are reading mentions a romantic glow?? Well, guess what? You have a glow, too. I'm no expert, but I hink it's the glow of an artist and a most thoughtful educator. I simply love reading about your homeschooling adventure. Thanks for sharing.

P.S. I wish I could remember the passage. I hate paraphrasing. I hope you know what I mean.

Guildy Pleasures Podcast said...

I really hope I wasn't making too much of a stretch. Things...they make sense in my brain but then I start talking or typing...

Carolyn said...

No, I love your comments! Very kind, and inspiring. Thank you! Know what you mean, though, about things sometimes making sense in our brains, but not so much when writing or talking...I have the same problem. Must be a sign of genius (ha ha ha)...

Gerky said...

I too am reading this. I picked it up at a hotel we stayed at a few months back. It is also on a book list of biographies for 8th grade so it works out.

It is rather inspirational. I just can't imagine the frustration felt by everyone.

Nice blog.

Gerky

Carolyn said...

Yes -- the frustration -- must have been immense...makes me feel like a wimp! :)